HI! I’m Jennifer.
Life is good, overall. It isn’t always easy. After going through a divorce, becoming a widow, and a full-time single mom to one, delightful boy, I appreciate what I have (tangible and intangible) and enjoy connecting with other bloggers. Add cancer to the mix and a sweet spouse.
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Monthly Archives: November 2009
Papa Appreciation
On the drive to dinner tonight, I felt a twinge of appreciation for my dad being around. I have memories of him, most of them good, and almost all heart-wrenching after 1993. “Huey Lewis and the Snooze” as Sid calls … Continue reading
Posted in appreciation, grieving
Tagged appreciation, dad, forgive, grieving, life's short, positive, remember the good, single mom
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Vacation Part II
For the second time this year, I have vacationed in a manner involving one-on-one time with Little Guy and socializing time with family during the evenings and weekend. I find this kind of vacationing more therapeutic and soothing, as opposed to having … Continue reading
Posted in change, gratitude, grieving, Motherhood
Tagged cooking, family, food, friends, grieving, love, new things, vacation
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Half-Wished Dreams
I dreamed last night that Ex was still alive. We were divorced, and he was still alive. Ex had wanted to plan a Fairy Party in a trendy store in a nearby half-trendy town. I agreed to help Ex get more … Continue reading
Posted in Acceptance, change, grieving
Tagged Acceptance, denial, dreams, frustration, grieving, reality
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Vacation Pre-Planned and Needed More than Ever!
I am on vacation. Yes, I took two of them this year. Why? Because I can and I need to. No, I don’t get paid vacation, but I get time off. I have had this trip loosely planned since August … Continue reading
Posted in gratitude, Motherhood
Tagged family, fun, getting away, me time, relaxation, resting, vacation
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Simplified
Since the passing in September, I’ve been a bit on the run housesitting from place to place then back at my old house. I’ve had about 6 or 7 shirts and two pair of pants and about 6 or 7 … Continue reading
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Tagged change, chores, housesitting, simplicity
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My Zen
I find my zen while doing dishes in the morning. Sometimes, I can hear the zen chimes. Crazy, right? Mostly I have time to think. In the morning, it’s quiet. Little Guy’s asleep. The sun rises. I take my … Continue reading
Talk Thursday – Mea Culpa
As a woman who grew up in Utah in the Mormon culture, I learned that everything is a woman’s fault. Awesome. I am the kind of person who feels responsible for almost everything and everyone. I am the kind of … Continue reading
Posted in appreciation, change, gratitude, success, Talk Thursday
Tagged dating, present, relationships, repeating the past, responsibility, single mom
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Ponderings
I get a lot of spam email. After Ex died, I wondered if he had signed me up for these as a last dying joke. Emails about Enzyte, Viagra, Meet Christian Singles (ick, blik, yuck!) started showing up. Okay, the … Continue reading
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Making New Memories
I took Little Guy trick-or-treating, well trunk-or-treating, on Halloween and then to a community Halloween party. Little Guy had a blast. I forgot the camera, so I’ll fake some pics later of Little Guy. I had a good time seeing … Continue reading
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Tagged appreciation, change, friends, gratitude, grieving, life is short, memories
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