I get a lot of spam email. After Ex died, I wondered if he had signed me up for these as a last dying joke. Emails about Enzyte, Viagra, Meet Christian Singles (ick, blik, yuck!) started showing up. Okay, the christian singles one started showing up a lot earlier, but I can’t figure out why.
I know Ex didn’t sign me up for spam email, but it’s a funny, dark thought to think he did.
While staying in the old house, I have realized that I still feel resentful and mad at times over everything that I have to put in order, even though I have Y&H and my mom and a good friend helping me get things straightened out the best they can. I have a hundred offers from people to help me with anything and not much I can delegate. I have about a thousand things I need to do that get pushed to the bottom of the list, such as, changing Ex’s Facebook photo that a stranger suggested that I do.
While some things on the Tying Up Ex’s Loose Ends To-Do List grow, some go away naturally. I love it when those happen. The child support agency got notified by the state. Check! I didn’t have to call them. Selling his vehicle and weapon? Y&H is on it and has buyers for both items and a few other things. Getting this house off my hands? I have my momma, two attorneys, and a financial advisor helping me figure out that. And I’m so grateful.
I know that everything will work out eventually. Now, back to the paperwork, so I can make it happen. I intend to have papers off the dining room table and into a file organizer by the end of the night and a complete spreadsheet of all loose ends Ex left behind. Check!